Sex is the instinct or attraction drawing one gender to another to get orgasm by coital pleasure. Everybody talk much about sex in camera but never in open talk. We find usually difficulty in talking about sex, so it is never understood in the life. By the time we understand it – the age is barred. According to Dr. Louann Brizendine, author of “The Female Brain,” men think about sex every 52 seconds, while women tend to think about it just once a day. Apparently, men are thinking about sex a great deal more than women. We are bombarded with an average of 1500 advertisements a day and many of these rely on the old adage “sex sells.” Both men and women are getting “sexier” regardless of how often each supposedly thinks about it. On one level, we treat sex as a normal part of everyday life, but at a deeper level, we are still like little kids for whom sex is naughty and evil. As adults, we think about sex, dream about sex and fantasize about sex . We watch movies where everyone has marathon sex bouts (recently inIndia, Karnataka and Gujarat MLA’s are on this issue).
How much sex we enjoy in life time?
- 26th year = 225
- 27th to 31st year = 900
- 32nd to 46th year = 900
- 47th to 57th year = 480
- After 57th year = 95
- A total 2600 orgasms in 13000 minutes
Let us make a small calculation on this part. Usually inIndiaa boy gets married at the age of 25 (average) years. As soon as got married, he explores everyday for few (6) months, some times twice a day. When we take out the average days leaving the menstrual days, festivals, etc, in a month it will be around 25 time’s coital pleasure. So, the coital count for first 6 months is – 25 X 6 = 150. The next 6 months the average drops to 50%, so it will be 75. So, for the first 365 days a total of 225 orgasms are undertaken. As the children appear, the subsequent 5 years goes with on and off an average of 15 times in month calculated to 180 orgasms multiplied for 5 years is 900 orgasms. Later as the responsibilities in the job and house are dumped it will be 5 times average per month makes a total 15 years of time with 900 orgasms. Next 10 years if fitness is maintained may be weekly once makes another 480 orgasms bagged. It is doubtful to have orgasms after the age of 57, if a bonus is given another 95 orgasms. It becomes a grand total of 2600 orgasms. If an orgasm is of 5 minutes the total time spent of orgasms is – 13000 minutes or 216.66 hours or 9 days out of a standard 60 years of life. Now it is to decide whether the marriage is for sex / orgasm or harmony / intimacy.
Are there any benefits with sex?
Yes. There are many benefits with regular sex (not the adultery). A harmonious sex is for harmonious life. The benefits of male and female may differ. Sex Relieves Stress and Boosts Immunity. But one thing is sure – it makes Calories to burn and makes the body fit for both. Sex not only Improves Intimacy it Boosts Self-Esteem also. Cordial sex is good for cardiac (Heart) health. Sex has good effect over the low-back. It Strengthens Pelvic Floor Muscles and reduces the risk of Prostate Cancer. After sex effects includes a good sleep at the end.
Justice Kailash Gambheer of Delhi high court has made remarkable comments on Hindu marriage and inclusion of sex in it while giving a judgment on a divorce case. The case admitted in to the court perusal for want of divorce as the wife is rejecting sex repeatedly and the couple underwent only 10-15 times in the span of 5 months. He commented as – how many times after the marriage they underwent sex is not the criteria but repeatedly rejecting sex without any proper reason is attributed to “Cruelty”. The success of the marriage is not gauge with the sex but the sex is the basement of marriage. Either the attachment or sex is the personal consideration and interest of couple, which strengthens their matrimonial binding. Marriage is sacred life event by which a Male and Female are living together to develop the offspring but not mere sexual act. To say the ultimate aim of marriage is sex is insulting the sanctity of marriage- [read more]
Ayurvedic technique of genetic engineering to ensure healthy progeny and to determine the sex of the child is Pumsavana or Garbhopachara (Susruta Samhita Shareera 2/31). Pumsavana is one of the Shodasha Karmas (Sixteen rituals) practiced in various stages of life in ancientIndia. Ayurveda uses many Gender selection drugs such as – Putramjeevi, Vatankura (Ficus Benghalensis), Apamarga, Sahachara, sahadeva, viswadeva, swetabrhati, etc.
To determine the use pattern of sex selection drugs (SSDs) or in rural North India an integrated qualitative and quantitative study was conducted. The Ayurvedic procedure described to change the sex of the foetus at 2 months of gestation is as follows “milk boiled with the paste of herbs . . . .. [read more]
Even though India taught – Vajikarana and Kamasutra, first to the mankind – now Austria took the privilege of opening an exclusive school for Loving. The full text is as follows – [source]
London, Dec 1 (IANS) While many people may think it’s an activity which should be best learned behind closed doors, an enterprising Swedish schoolmistress thinks otherwise.
Ylva-Maria Thompson has opened the world’s first international sex school for teaching the art of being better lovers, the Daily Mail reported.
The Austrian International Sex School in Vienna offers ‘hands on’ lessons in seduction for 1,400 pounds a term. The ‘headmistress’ says anyone over the age of 16 can enrol at ‘the world’s first college of applied sexuality’.
Students of the course are expected to stay in a co-ed dormitory block where they’re expected to practice their ‘homework’. By the end of their course, they are awarded a qualification.
The school head said: ‘Our core education is not theoretical, but very practical. The emphasis is on how to be a better lover.
‘Sexual positions, caressing techniques, anatomical features. And we teach people hands on.’
School’s spokesperson Melodi Kirsch exuded confidence that the school would be a great success.
The school, however, has already turned controversial in Austria with it raunchy advertisments showing a couple making love having already invited ban by Austrian TV.
Emily Nagoski PhD, Ian Kerner PhD, “The Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms”
Good in Bed Guides | 2010 | ASIN: B003YCPGMI | 108 pages | PDF | 3,2 MB
Want to learn how to achieve 487 different kinds of orgasms? If so, you’re reading the wrong guidebook. Despite what many in the media would have you believe, there’s no such thing as a rainbow variety of orgasms—and you’re not sexually inadequate if you aren’t having them every night, all night.
Available in the Net as Free Book – Use Search engines to get it
The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex
– Publisher: Harper Paperbacks | ISBN: 0060574216 | edition 2004 | PDF | 369 pages | 11,7 mb
When troubled or depressed, women “go down into their wells, and men retreat into their caves,” the author claims in this abridged version of his best-selling book. Gray uses such examples to demonstrate the common conflicts between men and women. Topics include communication differences; emotional needs and the different ways of expressing these needs; and forming and maintaining relationships. This adaptation, read competently by Gray, succinctly summarizes the text. Deborah Tannen’s You Just Don’t Understand: Talk Between the Sexes (S. & S. Audio, 1991) offers a more in-depth look at the different communication styles, although Gray’s clinical experience is evident in his text. Without any research references, however, the material comes across as psychobabble. Recommended for public libraries where demand warrants.